Freshman year of high school, I had just moved to San Diego from Portland, Oregon. One of the first things I did on campus was join Best Buddies. Best Buddies is a world-wide nonprofit dedicated to creating friendships, jobs and leadership opportunities for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities. I was matched in a one-to-one friendship with a young girl named Haylie, pictured above. This was taken on the first night we met one another at a Halloween party. Haylie and I had an immediate connection with one another and did everything together. Haylie taught me how to love unconditionally and be brave in a world of fear. I started getting really involved in Best Buddies and became Chapter President at my high school. Then, I started traveling to elementary schools to talk to kids about what it means to have a disability. At the end of my senior year, I was chosen as one of thirteen leaders from around the country to serve on the Best Buddies Young Leader's Council.
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Out to dinner. |
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At a local 5K. |
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This was fall of our senior year when Haylie was crowned homecoming queen. |
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I had the honor of wheeling my best friend across stage at our high school graduation. This is one of my favorite photos of us.
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When I got to SDSU, I immediately got involved in Best Buddies. I served as President of Best Buddies SDSU my sophomore year and am still currently holding this position. Every week we put on meetings where adults with disabilities and SDSU students get to foster friendships with one another. This spring, we will be opening a coffee stand on campus called Best Buddies Brews. Not only will our buddies will learn marketable job and social skills, but SDSU will be a more inclusive place. Joining Best Buddies and meeting Haylie, not only changed my life but also my career path. After finishing my undergrad in Speech, Language and Hearing Sciences, I will attend graduate school to become a Speech-Language Pathologist. I want to empower kids with severe disabilities to communicate with the world around them. I am forever grateful to Best Buddies for introducing me to the sister I never had and changing my life for the better.
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Here we are on the teacups in Disneyland. One of our favorite places to spend time together. |
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This was this past summer. I finally learned how to drive her mini van (which is equipped to hold her wheelchair), so we got to go to froyo without her mom. This was a big moment for the both of us. |
Hi Julia!
ReplyDeleteWow your story is incredibly heart-warming and beautiful. It's amazing how much other people can teach us about ourselves and others. Making a friend like Haylie is priceless and I'm glad to hear how influential Best Buddies has been for you. You discovered a program that allowed you to make a lifetime friend, help other people, and discover your future career. It's so important to have programs like Best Buddies, allowing for more awareness of people with disabilities as they are a marginalized group.
Sarah
Julia,
ReplyDeleteThis story is unbelievably beautiful and I just kept smiling as I was scrolling through your post and looking at all the awesome photos attached! It sounds like Best Buddies is an incredible program, I am so glad that you talked about it on your blog because I have never heard of it, but it is something that I am one hundred percent interested in. Can anyone join at any time? Your heart seems so pure and it is so amazing that you found such an incredible life long friend during your journey. I will definitely be getting my daily dose of caffeine from Best Buddies Brews, so cool! Good luck furthering your education, it sounds like you are unstoppable.
Cheers,
Shaelee Barry
Hi Shaelee!
DeleteWe would love to have you join our program! We meet every week on Wednesday's from 6:30-7:30 in the Park Boulevard Suite of the Student Union. Hopefully you are able to stop by!!
This is such an amazing story. I had never even heard of Best Buddies or the work you all do. Be sure to let me know where your coffee stand will be.
ReplyDeleteErin
Hi Julia! Very touching story! It always warms my heart and makes me smile knowing that there are people like you that can have such a big impact on someones life. You probably get this a lot, but you will have a lifetimes worth of memories and stories from the moments you share with Haylie and I hope that we can keep hearing about your memories you two create!
ReplyDeleteMitchell
Hi Julia,
ReplyDeleteYour story is beautiful. I worked with a program like best buddies throughout middle school and part of high school and is wonderful that such an amazing program was able to give you so many memories and opportunities. The work you and your organization does is amazing. I did not know a program like this existed at SDSU so thank you for sharing about what you do. I cant wait until the coffee shop opens! I just looked into your facebook page and am sad that I missed the first meeting, but hope I can make the next one.
Allyson
Hi Allyson!
DeleteThank you for your kind words. You are always welcome to join us on Wednesday's from 6:30-7:30 in the Park Boulevard Suite of the Student Union.